Let him deal with her, she is his problem. I have since revised this hub, because now I am a Baby Mama myself. And if im gonna stay what should i do? She knew about me all this time when her and I spoke. I understand her, its not easy because she don't know me yet. I went and picked her and her things up off the side of the road and took her to my room.
He has to let her know that he has taken an interest in another person. But yes she probably wont sign the papers but that is a bridge he needs to cross when he gets to it. I knew something was going to happen. If you love him enough to stick with him while he's in prison, you should love him enough to trust him to do right by you when he gets out. Is he truly worth the possible baby mama drama or are you ready to put in work to make sure your relationship is a prosperous union between the two of you? Maybe he see now that I'm fed up or maybe he feels like I will throw it back up in his face. I don't see any improvements yet. I get it on both ends.
All She does insult me every chance she get plus telling my bf that he cant have kid with me. They both were equally at fault. I never knew truly loving someone with the whole package is a lot. Just you and your kids. He never had a women like me. Right now she's running everything and you and your man are focusing more on her than your own relationship. She stuck around standing in his face begging and pleading with him and asking him if he really wanted to be with me.
And she been with us since. She started using the court system as a way of falsely accusing me of all sorts of things- both civil and criminal. I know he cares about us a lot I'm just not sure if this temporarily or what. Once a woman gives birth to a child the man thinks she belongs to him forever? He wants to avoid contact or suddenly needs to detour to the bathroom or check something on the other side of the building. He could come and pick her up to take her to the park, McDonald's or Chuckie Cheese. Until now she keeps on texting him day and night like complaining about the kids being lazy but he ignores her texts and talks to the kids and only to them.
How close is to close with your man and is baby mama. She's mentally unstable and the kids are out of control. Jealousy is a normal emotion for you and the baby mama to have. This is such a sucky situation, but You can't take this hurt into your next relationship. I also told him to get a vistitation order whenever he files for divorce. After all I saw in her text messages and pictures where she was so fixated on the guy she began trying to have his baby. I've dated a guy months ago not knowing that he's in a relationship with another woman.
If a man is being secretive about the relationship with his baby mother to any extent. Stay strong, because that what your child needs to see. Get balloons, streamers, party snacks, cake and ice cream. So this can make things complicated, but he still has to let her know what's going on. She tells him his daughter dont want to be over here doesn't love him no more etc. He doesn't want to call her apart from important matters regarding the kids as their conversations would always end up in a heated arguments.
We got our intials tattooed on our wedding finger. Dealing with your boyfriend's baby mama can be stressful as it is, but when she is crazy, you better run. I think you two can be happy together if you approach the situation with an open mind. My Bf is seperated from his wife. By loving the child, you should respect the child's mother. If she has none, then her statements have no merit.
And I also told him that maybe we need to meet each other so that there wont be so much confusion going on. If you are not sure, write out a list of pros and cons that exist within your relationship. I broke the relationship off because I found out that he was denying me and our son. He was heartbroken and I was worried. I don't feel he should go out of his way to always be there for her.
Talk about what needs to be done in order from him to start trusting her. She said no, she said she will never talk to me and I can never come close to her daughter. He also needs to get some sort of court order that guarantees he will be able to see his child. I'm not saying that he isn't capable of cheating. Sorry for my English, I am from Europe :-.