He gave me work I. Love and connection with someone else is a very, very powerful thing. It still some days hurts about the same the day I found out. I can no longer deal with the pain. Less than 2 months later he was married.
The stresses with doing this have been unbelievable, set back after setback. I pray that your wife will see what is happening and choose differently. I just replied with no one is attractive to me! He does not believe 1 is possible. Instead, I yearn for the day it finds me unexpectedly how this man once did. During the last 6 months before returning from abroad, It just hit me one day — that I was In love with him. He was spending all hours of the night out with her. Please try to move on and there are plenty of other women in the same place.
We saw each other thru every major life event. He will agree and still call me, text me or tell me to come outside at work. He said he always did. I pray for him, and grudgingly try to pray for her also. He never wanted to spend the rest his life with me. At this point im in a relationship with my now husband.
I never wanted to hurt my boyfriend, because i truly loved him my heart would be broken beyond repair to know i caused pain to someone i loved. He acted as if he wanted to save our marriage when i left and spoke about moving to where i was and working it out. Among other things i havent seen because ive been so distant and blind to what is going on. But he still gave signs that he loved me. In my mind, I kept wondering some ways how I can make him my husband. We still msg often and he told me he still is around to chat with me but wants me to be happy and move on with my life.
If you have any thoughts on moving on when the man you love is getting married to someone else, please feel free to share with me. Just live your life, there are so many frnds, who loves you, your parents, siblings etc. He is a mean fellow but overall I like the way he makes me feel. Last year he met a much younger woman who believes in polyamory. He won't care, he will keep telling me he loves me and I start to feel that he doesn't really care on what I need. Thinking about your future without him is devastating.
It came to the point after those 3 months that this other woman had told me she loved me and I responded with the same. He was with his wife and he said she will start to suspect if he sneaks out for me. He has told me im like a drug to him and that he is infatuated with me. Like any relationship we had struggles but because of our love we pulled together even stronger. I had a very hard time dealing with this. If she is employed herself, let her take what is hers, nothing more.
We discussed it and eventually she returned home from her father. I was going through a bit of roller coaster for a week. I know he wants me to have his child but i fear its for the fact that we will always have a bond. He proposed to her… She said yes…. He came to my state and asked me to marry him, he stayed for Christmas, and he met all my family and friends. These guys want their cake.
Create a game plan for yourself on how you will be okay. . He leaves to college, starts travelling th world. Are you and your boyfriend still in a relationship together? And now he does this to me. I avoided him and he kept pushing towards me; the compliments poured in. Now his parents are looking for a girl for him. I avoid all topics leading to flirtation.