If he won't go then consider going for yourself. Yesterday was a completely normal day. It will take consistency and delicacy but it can be done. Blessings from one frazzled mommy to another! Its not about trying to be a nice person. Anyway, we went shopping that weekend too.
When he does something, I always compliment him, and brag on him. They cause conflict between my husband and I. If a small investment of time and money greases the wheel its a high return on investment for him. I don't understand it and I've had it!! I might even ask my wife what she thinks, but I already have my mind made up about a decision. But he hardly pays attention to them then.
He will say things because he know they will hurt my feelings. It really opened up my though process and I realized how much I was doing and thinking the wrong way. He never apologizes for anything he might say or do and he expects me to always be the one that gives in whenever there is a disagreement. I hate it, because I need the emotional aspect of it. Although he thinks we have moved on from that day I still feel the hurt and I have a hard time trusting him. I wish he would just walk out the door and never come back. You are a grown man, handle yourself! You are both feeling overwhelmed and under appreciated and resentful of each other.
My spirit is so crushed that most days I dread the moment he walks through the door. He is more open with attention and affection towards me and ultimatately gives me what I am seeking without even asking. I hope you can make it work. However, once you marry someone your spouse is your partner, that is your best friend and you are building another family with your spouse. I am not saying give in to his every whim but try and come to some type of balance where both of your needs, whether physical, housework etc. The police have been involved because of his other sibling drug use and theft. Marriage is a give and take thing.
? I also read the other post and got good information from that as well. Marriage is full of times where our intentions are misunderstood. I just want the best for our marriage. So, I walked away before any first date. I hate that I shake constantly and rarely talk anymore for fear that I'll say something to set him off. But that makes him even more mad im at my limit. You want to find some men who are as committed to their wives as you want to be to yours.
Methinks the apology belongs on the tongue of a young man who should be grateful he is engaged to a young woman who is anticipating potential problem areas before them and is taking reasonable efforts to avoid conflict between them. That's how I ended up here on this article. I do not blame him anymore, and I do accept the blame for allowing his actions to escalate over the years. Second, when was pregnant with our daughter, he accused me of getting pregnant by an ex with whom I had dated before him when I went to visit family after dealing with his complete lack of respect or care for me. I am very scared of his chilly manners, and i even put my ego away to talk to him about many things, but it seems like he doesn't feel moving of my tears anymore. I've been so fatigued and tired that I went to the doctor to have my thyroid checked 'cause I was sure there was something wrong, but nope, it's just from being a mommy of two, a wife, a homekeeper, etc, etc,.
Also, what it is about the other one that made you fall in love. I end up going to bed and he comes to bed much later after getting up off the couch and then he's up again before I wake up. Clearly they have no respect for us, clearly we are nothing more than blowjob robots. I want to be married but to a man that I don't believe exists. Now, in my professional opinion — the atmosphere has become too politically correct to discuss this issue candidly.
I will not put up with that I am better than that. Sometimes we have to be the peacemaker in the relationship. He could be honest to me about her but didn't want me to use that information to hurt him more by bashing her. He calls me weak and fat in front of the children. The same with his family.