I know better than to do that though. I hope that your boyfriend loves you back the same way. It's really surprising to me that out of all the people here, SammyCola is the only one who actually brought this up. We fight over this repeatedly. Once we are strong we can find better. Dependent, spoon-fed guys are generally sensitive and caring.
God, reading over this again brings back all the amazing memories we've had together. I cant believe he treats me like that? He treats me nice, he never expects anything from me. And if i do, it just ends up in huge fights. Any time i bring it up we end up fighting and i take the blame so he will just drop it. And i know there will be other people who can treat me better. His dad is head of some dept.
He supports and encourages me more than anyone else ever has. Tell him, you won't keep doing this for him. Find a man who will cherish you as you deserve. He is very insecure and I think that it makes him feel good by controlling and manipulating girls. I promise to be your strength Whenever you fall weak. I mean it was nice being with me I felt good about myself, I thought I was going somewhere with my future not with him but with college. He likes to suggest how suggest everything from what color coat I should buy to the proper way to bleach my teeth.
He would get mad if I hung out with friends who were guys. Solution: Tell him that it really bothers you, ask why he looks at it when you are making the effort of keeping him happy with just you. He is not going to change 100% to that what I wish. Then he feels like hes been attacked and makes her choose. He rented a room in a house previously and I rented a small house with my two children.
Maybe he will realize what he lost one day, maybe he won't, but by then it won't matter because you'll have gotten over him and will know that you are happier without him in your life. I don't know what his problem is, but, if he really loved you, he would treat you well, realize how lucky he is to have you and realize that you love him. Personally, that would be my main area of concern. Waisting your time on him only makes you feel bad and if you keep doin this, you will begin to think this is normal. Thank you for the random phone calls in the middle of the day even when you are at work. Recently he told me that he wished I would burn. Sit on that pretty ass of yours that he used to like so much, and do.
He has asked my mom to keep me away from him and has told me he is going to find a pure woman. Then I still find time for the kids and to take the lady on dates. He is perfect for me in every way possible. After all, honesty is the best thing for a relationship. That you comfort me when I cry for no reason on the phone. Also, don't permit his insults or opinion to influence you in any negative way.
I broke up with him before and the crying and begging brought me back. Ive had talks with him about how he makes me feel but it just doesnt seem to be doing much good. I just had this conversation with him Tuesday and tonight he's acting the same way again. We have both adjusted our ways for each other but i am definitely more involved in this relationship and he is thinking about leaving it. Why do you undervalue yourself so much? Perfect because everything that you do is wrong! Just stay positive thing will heel and Find a new path. Again and again he will talk about the past. Most of the nights that he is here when i go to sleep, I go to sleep crying or just wishing that i wouldnt have to ever wake up again.
Like mentioned before, we should work on ourselves first. I know that there is no changing him, but I am too afraid to escape. I never did these kinds of things before. At least I hope it is… He changed his number after a year of toxic games and controlling behaviour. The way I see it, there are two options here, either the guy is trying to be controlling--as thirty of you pointed out--or he is actually trying to openly communicate what bothers him in the relationship.